Having a baby boy prompts the question: Should we circumcise? Like many parenting choices, you’ll feel like you have more questions than answers. Some families choose it for cultural or religious reasons; others consider potential medical benefits. Whatever’s prompting your curiosity, the best place to start is a conversation with your pediatrician. To help you feel more informed going in, we’ve compiled a list of common (and not-so-common) questions parents often ask.
The Basics
Before making any decisions, it is helpful to understand what circumcision entails. Let’s start with some fundamentals.
What Is Circumcision, and How Is It Performed on Newborns?
Circumcision is a procedure where the foreskin (the fold of skin covering the head of the penis) is surgically removed. It’s typically a quick procedure that takes only a few minutes and does not require a hospital stay – what we call an outpatient procedure. The procedure takes place in a sterile, controlled environment, and a local anesthetic is used to help reduce discomfort. A clamp is commonly used in babies to perform the procedure, which both cuts and crimps the skin so no stitches are needed. It’s common for babies to cry during or just after the procedure, but they tend to settle down quickly, especially when they’re back in your arms for cuddles and food.
When Is the Procedure Performed?
Usually, it’s done within the first few days after birth, if the baby is healthy and full-term. In many hospitals, it’s scheduled before the family goes home. That said, timing can vary. In some cases, it may be postponed, especially for cultural or religious reasons. If a baby is premature or has specific health concerns, the procedure may be delayed until a pediatrician gives clearance.
What Kind of Pain Relief Is Used During and After the Procedure?
A local anesthetic is used to numb the area before the procedure begins. Afterward, some babies may seem a little fussy or sensitive, but most don’t need medication beyond Tylenol. While your baby is healing, especially immediately following the procedure, be extra gentle during diaper changes. Your doctor will likely provide step-by-step diaper care instructions to help your baby stay comfortable during healing.
How long is the healing process?
Healing usually takes about 7 to 10 days. It’s normal to see a slight swelling and redness, but if you notice heavy bleeding or unusual discharge, or if your baby seems to be in a lot of pain, it’s a good idea to check in with your doctor.
What Are the Medical Reasons for Circumcision?
In babies who are otherwise healthy, circumcision is sometimes performed because it may reduce the risk of specific medical issues later on. For example, it can lower the chances of urinary tract infections in the first year of life, reduce the risk of some sexually transmitted diseases in adulthood, and help prevent problems like foreskin infections or a tight foreskin that can be hard to clean.
Are There Any Risks or Complications Associated With Newborn Circumcision?
While circumcision is generally a safe procedure, like any surgery, it carries some risks. These can include minor bleeding, infection, or irritation at the site. Serious complications are rare but can happen. Your provider will explain how to spot signs of problems and what to do if you’re concerned.
Is My Baby a Good Candidate for Circumcision?
Doctors usually look for signs that your baby is healthy before scheduling the procedure. If your baby was born full-term and has no immediate health concerns, circumcision is generally safe to proceed.
Are There Reasons That Circumcision Shouldn’t Be Performed?
Yes – some babies have medical conditions that might delay or rule out circumcision. For example, babies born prematurely, those with certain bleeding disorders, infections, or problems with the penis or urinary tract may need to wait or avoid circumcision altogether.
Curious Queries
Outside of the basic how-tos, many parents have questions that arise in everyday moments – during diaper changes, bath time, or simply holding their baby. These curiosities might not always make it into the official FAQ, but they’re just as important. Here are a few that come up more often than you’d think.
Do I Have to Hold My Baby Any Differently?
No, you don’t need to hold your baby differently, but being gentle around the diaper area is a good idea for the first few days. Most babies are happiest when they’re snuggled, so feel free to hold and cuddle as usual – just keep an eye out for any signs of discomfort, especially during diaper changes or tummy time. Your touch is still one of the best comforts they have.
Does Circumcision Affect the Baby’s Ability to Urinate Normally Right After the Procedure?
Babies will urinate normally after circumcision without any issues. You may notice some mild discomfort or fussiness during urination on the first day or two, but this usually subsides. If you see signs like straining, swelling, or difficulty urinating, you should contact your doctor.
Can I Use Natural or Home Remedies to Help Heal the Circumcision?
It’s best to follow your pediatrician’s advice on caring for the circumcision site. While some parents ask about natural remedies like coconut oil or aloe, it’s important to check with your doctor first. Some natural products might cause irritation or allergic reactions. Usually, a Vaseline or Neosporin ointment, or just keeping the area clean and dry is enough to support healing.
Can Circumcision Be Done Later if We Change Our Minds?
Yes, circumcision can be done later, but it’s a more involved procedure as the child gets older. It may require general anesthesia and a longer recovery period. That’s one reason why many families choose to decide during the newborn period. If you’re unsure, it’s perfectly fine to ask.
What Do I Do if a Diaper Rash Develops?
Diaper rash can occur after circumcision because the skin is still healing and is more sensitive. If you notice redness or irritation, keep the area clean and change the diaper frequently. With your doctor’s approval, use a gentle barrier cream (like zinc oxide) to protect the skin and avoid wipes with alcohol or fragrances. If the rash worsens or doesn’t improve, contact your pediatrician for guidance.
Can Babies With Allergies or Skin Sensitivities Still Undergo Circumcision Safely?
Babies with allergies or sensitive skin can often have circumcision safely, but it’s important to let the provider performing the circumcision know ahead of time. They may recommend special care or different products to use during the healing process to prevent irritation or reactions.
Is It Going to Be an Emotional Trauma?
Babies don’t remember the procedure, and while they might cry or be fussy during and shortly after, it’s usually not a lasting emotional trauma. Comforting your baby with cuddles, feeding, and soothing voices right after can help ease distress.
What Do I Do About Bath Time?
For the first few days (3-5 days) it’s best to avoid full baths. Instead, stick to sponge baths and keep the circumcision site dry. Once healed, regular baths can resume. Always follow your pediatrician’s advice on bathing to ensure the area remains clean and irritation-free.
Could Circumcision Influence the Way My Baby Bonds or Reacts to Touch?
There’s no evidence that circumcision affects how babies bond with their parents or their overall sensitivity to touch. Bonding is mostly about time, attention, and care. After healing, your baby’s responses to cuddling and touch will be just as warm and natural.
Is There Temperature Sensitivity?
Immediately after the procedure, the area may be slightly tender or sensitive to cold or heat, but this usually subsides quickly. Once healed, most boys don’t experience unusual temperature sensitivity in the circumcised area.
Flow With Your Family
We know new parents will have a plethora of questions. Don’t be afraid to ask! Take your time, ask your questions, and trust that curiosity is part of good parenting. Every family is different, and only you truly know what’s right for your baby. Trust your instincts – they’re a strong compass. Whatever you decide, it’s the love and care you give that matters most.
If you’d like to talk through your options or have more questions, the team at the Newborn Circumcision Center is here to help. Reach out anytime to schedule a consultation or simply learn more.